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Wifie frabjous after divorce

After being divorced last summer, a wifie has seen her self-discovery and happiness reach an all time high. She is a fellow millennial whom we went to same elementary school, plenty of childhood memories ended up with  her tumultuous life of marriage that spanned four years. What struck me was how contemplating leaving her marriage was based on evidence that justified absolutely it was the right decision for her. The list of stressful life events that took place were devastating in same length an breadth death of  a loved one, jailing or illness can be. Gorgeous as ever, the single mother of a two year old song witnessed an alarming decrease in mental and physical health, financial problems and emotional torment all put together while she was ending the marriage.Little did she know that her divorce would end empowering and liberating her. Being a single mom, I can tell you Contador  Harrison I have even been abused and had stories made about me for being a single mother and frankly its

Confessions of a love rat 

A neck of the woods paisan disclosed his philandering versatility which left me astounded. In his own words, there is an acceptable minimum number of average sex partners a male species should have at any given time and  same applies to female species.To him, dating multiple women is the greatest option he’s had in this world as he seem to have feelings for more than one woman, his wife. While having a chinwag on his carpet knight life,  shared some important thoughts he should consider including brushing up on what’s important in a relationship and how to deal with the green-eyed monster called jealousy when his wife comes to learn of his behavior. His  response that its been primary objective whenever he hooks up with a girl to be open and honest with her on his marriage but doesn’t discuss about his other girlfriends involved. In your life Contador Harrison, hasn’t anyone ever asked you what your figure is? It’s something that happens to all men whether married or single like you, t

Musings of my coding life

In April, 1995, exactly today, my mom told me to forget outdated enrichment classes like learning how to play the piano, playing squash, swimming and encouraged me as a tween to get focused on programming. She told me that in decades to come, computer programmers will become a  hot commodity in the work force and that the kids who will learn to code are poised to have a great future.Back then, I was among the few children who  were being sent for computational thinking and coding lessons as my mom increasingly saw the value in starting me early in a manpower-hungry industry. On the other hand, my father, keen reader and buyer of newspapers and magazines, supported the idea that technological skills will  be highly sought after. In a nutshell, I was lucky to have parents who understood the importance of programming and they wanted me to be prepared for the future.My parents recognized that coding was useful and  important, as the world and future will be driven by more and more computin

Geezer’s ructions on millennials

Contador Harrison is a proud millennial but that doesn’t seem to be the case with a geezer who resides in the neck of the wood.His paroxysm on my generation left me gobsmacked, he claimed that millennials are notorious for expressing very little loyalty to their employers and that we are all about personal fulfillment, joy and quest for purpose. The convulsion continued claiming us millennials money is important and we enjoy making it but majority of us long to be part of something bigger than ourselves. Before he proceeded, I sought to know his source of vexation, plainly it was clear some millennial who were working for him have call it quits and didn’t like it and now his company is on the lookout for IT engineers, computer science engineers, and artificial intelligence engineers, but has found the breeding  grounds for tech talent well and truly tapped, he can’t even have me work for him. Explained to geezer that my generation know our work matters and need to see how our efforts f

Ribbon of darkness

I was sitting in a neck of the wood coffee shop when a familiar face came to  say  hello wearing a grey top and dark leggings and white Nike sneakers. She had no make-up on her baby face and her hair was drawn back in a ponytail. It was almost four years since we last met with her and hubby and she appeared to be very calm and confident. However her sign of emotion as she  sat across were clearly opposite of the person i knew back then. Of cause just like all female friends do, her first question was whether I’ve gotten someone to keep me warm or I’m in the process of processing a damsel for eternal companionship. Well, I reminded her that I’m a million times more  controvert about relationships and marriages than ever before. That made her ask what are the secrets of maintaining such life and what she could do to live like me….couldn’t help but laugh. Politely, i asked why would a  married woman seek such path and visibly, her beautifully manicured hands trembled as she spoke about he

Mythos of lovey-dovey in the hood

Lovebirds in our nabe have taken love to another level, in nowadays largely  superficial dating scene, the thought of romance has become uncool. That’s not the case with whippersnappers in the hood who occasionally have shown all they want to be swept off their feet.To them, the fear of wearing their hearts on their sleeves which in turn prohibits dating from turning up the romance, doesn’t exist. One of them told me dating is easy but finding the one is hard.As the hood’s most widely know casanova, he says that  finding or maintaining a successful relationship comes down to trust, communication, and compromise. According to him, some of the biggest  mistakes that youngsters dating make on first dates happen during the getting to know you conversation. Most of his fellow casanovas are too  eager to talk about their past, break-ups, work in detail and then want to probe potential partners deeply on their past relationships and finances. All this during a would-be romantic meeting.Succes

Filly tormented by fat shaming

Grossly fat women and men will have to live with fat shaming, a term used to describe how obese people are often ridiculed and humiliated for being overweight, and just like we identify ourselves with different races, our weight levels are determining how we are viewed and treated.In my entire  life, I’ve never had a problem with weight but some close friends especially females have for years had to put up with body shaming. There is no doubt all of us want to appear good, live long lives, feel great and look fit.Those of us that manage our weight with healthy eating and regular exercise recognize that the responsibility for our own personal health and the way we look to others rests on our own shoulders. On the other hand, poor nutrition and growing levels of obesity are taking a toll on the health of most people as an increasing number consume fast food and lead sedentary lifestyles.Almost all of them end up being obese and are usually ashamed of their how they look, leading into men