Confessions of a love rat

A neck of the woods paisan disclosed his philandering versatility which left me astounded. In his own words, there is an acceptable minimum number of average sex partners a male species should have at any given time and same applies to female species.To him, dating multiple women is the greatest option he’s had in this world as he seem to have feelings for more than one woman, his wife. While having a chinwag on his carpet knight life, shared some important thoughts he should consider including brushing up on what’s important in a relationship and how to deal with the green-eyed monster called jealousy when his wife comes to learn of his behavior. His response that its been primary objective whenever he hooks up with a girl to be open and honest with her on his marriage but doesn’t discuss about his other girlfriends involved.In your life Contador Harrison, hasn’t anyone ever asked you what your figure is? It’s something that happens to all men whether married or single like you, the love rat said. The bloke added that he fancy different type of female species, from air hostess, high end hotel receptionists, cocktail-sipping girls and can high-five her any delightful lady I get a chance to. That led me to ask how many he has on his speed dial in case of a need, answer was 11, to prove his words, he called each at a time in my presence on loud speaker, demanded a nooky, astonishingly none rejected his request.I genuflected for the bloke!I asked him what he thought of that number and how he felt about his own wife at home.On one side he seemed high, for other he seemed low. But I and him agreed on is that it doesn’t fucking matter, not one bit because in today’s world, adultery is standard practice for married men and women as well as singles, divorced whether you live in cities or outback. 

More than anything what bothered him was women and men like him being made to feel ashamed about their sex lives. At either end of the spectrum.In his marriage, sex life has become stale and predictable, and whilst there is more information than ever available to help him and wife keep their passion afloat sometimes the answer they look for is outside the box, so to speak and thats why having sex partners is unquestionably the right thing for me to do, he said.Being a womanizer, he has never understood how a man can find satisfying the needs of one partner challenging, for him sex life is about gratifying his own and other sex partner’s needs who play a pivotal role in the survival of his high octane levels. He confessed that for the last three years alone he may have slept with 150 different partners, he showed me his pictures with them, sex videos with some of them and he can bet his wife might have slept with just one or none, but he doesn’t mind..Although he agrees that philandering is equivalent to being in dangerous waters, whether he perfects to play that game of seduction deduction, one thing for sure he’s not stopping any time soon. I can’t predict how  higher or lower the numbers will be, but what matters is how he feel about his new flame any time he mines one whether in club or neck of the woods.Bravely, he is the kind of a bloke who doesn’t to a certain degree about the outcome of his rumpy-pumpy and interestingly he told me he can’t recall how many sexual partners have come before 2015 when he started keeping his data.His reasoning though, is that personal focus should not be on the number but the outcome of having multiple copulation partners. Bloke said he’s having safe, enjoyable, consensual sex and will continue to have it as much as he like.He revealed that eight might be an average number at this period due to his busy schedule of work, but there is certainly no reason why he can’t increase the number in coming months and years. After all, it is not mine or no one’s business but his own. This article first appeared here